“Looking Back” – by Debbie Ambrous

June 7, 2018 – Thursdayof the Burgundy, France Journal

Published normalement (normally) bi-weekly on Sunday

The village of Vezelay, one of the most beautiful villages of France, is approximately twenty-four miles from Noyers-sur-Serein where we were staying in an atmospheric restored village house. Jim and I are not strangers to Vezelay since we have visited a number of times over the years.  In fact, we arranged to meet a realtor fifteen years ago who showed a house to us in a nearby village, and another in country hamlet.  (Be sure to look for the link below to see old photos from that time.)   I couldn’t remember the name of the village with the stone house which could have been purchased for less than most new cars.  Then, as we were driving to Vezelay I saw familiar landmarks that jolted my memory into gear.  I asked Jim to turn around, and we drove into the village looking slowly along each street until we found the house which is still in good condition, seeming like it was only yesterday, except the fence had a fresh coat of paint. (Upper right photo shown below with surrounding village photos.) Jim parked across the street so I could capture photos of the house and relive moments from the past.  I redecorated the house in my mind and dreamed of living there when we returned home after the viewing with the realtor, but I worried about leaving the house empty since we were several years from retirement, and what about my mama who was still living at that time?  Hopping on a plane in France to fly to Alabama if she needed help would be costly.  That along with other reasons stopped my dream from becoming reality.  Did I make the right choice?

I was standing by the house, camera in hand, by a grape arbor belonging to the next-door neighbor when a gentleman hidden under the vines spoke to me in French.  Or, maybe I spoke to him first.  I don’t remember.  I was trying to use my few words of French, and he replied the same until one of us said something in English.  Then we realized that English was our common language.  I explained about my interest in the house next door and how we missed out on the purchase years ago.  He was friendly and on impulse he invited us to join him in his courtyard under the grapevines with the sun filtering though and casting shadows which drifted like the images from the past in my mind. The polite gentleman, Bryan, is a writer of military history.  His wife, Margaret, who was probably puzzled by the appearance of strangers at her table did a quick recovery and welcomed us like she was expecting a couple from Alabama to come through her garden gate.  I wrote quick notes when I was in the car with the words “red shirt and blue & white (hat for sun)” scribbled in my pad, and now I don’t know who wore what, but either way they were charming.  The petite courtyard was filled with flower pots and an antique sewing machine frame with tabletop added in the corner creating character among the trailing vines and flowers.  I found a similar cast iron Singer sewing machine frame and used it as a bedside stand, but after accidentally stubbing my toes on the iron frame a dozen or more times, the pain-inducing antique found itself by the road again!

Bryan and Margaret were expecting company, just not us!  Chantal and Johnny, a younger couple, arrived and we were introduced like we were meant to be part of the morning get-together.  Our more or less impromptu group enjoyed coffee and cookies at the table with its lovely decoration.  The local couples shared stories about their village life with lots of laughter, and we added a few stories of our travel adventures.  Chantal wore a pretty blue shirt with matching earrings which I admired.  I didn’t ask to take a photo of the group since I thought we had invaded their privacy quite enough.  (I have not included the name of the village for the same reason.)  We are tremendously grateful for their nice hospitality to us since we dreamed years ago of being their next-door neighbors without knowing them.  I believe we would have been very happy with Bryan and Margaret just steps away.



One long, steep street lined with interesting shops, galleries and cafes rises upward to Vezelay’s basilica at the top of the hill.  Vezelay and the basilica are listed by UNESCO as a World Heritage Site.  The most notable event in the history of the basilica took place when Richard the Lionheart and Phillippe Auguste embarked on the 3rd crusade from this basilica.  If you dislike history lessons, you will be happy since I do not plan to write about all of the relics and sobering, dark events of the past.

Right away, I won the car-spotting prize of the day with a knock-your-eyes-out, bright yellow Sports Matra!  Matra was a small company that won Le Mans more than once in a car using their own V12 engine, and again the Formula One title and other major road race events. The Matra Murena is a mid-engine, rear wheel drive sports car that was produced from 1980 to 1983 by the French engineering group Matra.  The factory was located in Romorantin-Lanthenay in the Loir-et-Cher department in central France.  Jim should be proud of me for locating this rare vehicle and the info on the stunning car.

Further along the street, I was anxious to find the ancient doorway where I aimed my old camera many years ago.  The photo hangs in our home in the hallway where I walk past each day and only occasionally think about the moment I found the faded blue doorway with the basket of cheerful daisies suspended above.  Sadly, the cheerfulness is gone, and the building seems to be falling into deep disrepair.  I posed with my sunhat, encouraging Jim to take several pictures since I am not photogenic and maybe one out of twelve would work.  I was sorry that I hogged so much time when I realized that another lady who was inspired by my performance in the doorway was waiting patiently while I smiled with hat and without hat, with sunglasses and without.  You get the picture.Our leisurely viewing of silk-screen designs, galleries, candy shops, sidewalk cafes and wine shops came to a halt when rain pelted down like a faucet opened full-force.  Conveniently, a café with windows and doorway opened to the street was a few steps away.  We went through the ancient door under the thick wisteria vines, past many green glass bottles along the walls on the old stone floor.  Cabalus was the name of the small restaurant with rooms to rent upstairs.  We sat on wooden bistro chairs under high stone arches watching the cats reclining on the windowsill, or doing their regal catwalk across the floor like they owned the place Water rushed along the edges of the street.  Teachers rushed their students back to class.  Tourists waited in doorways.  We enjoyed our petite meal and waited out the mini-storm.

Leaving the main street and wandering to the crest of the hill there are far-reaching views over the Monts de Morvan and to the edge of the Morvan Regional Park.  Strolling along the narrow, winding streets away from the crowd we found peace and quiet with views of gardens, ancient houses and a bench to contemplate it all.  Dark clouds were still lingering around, so I suggested that we drive to a chateau for an inside tour.  When we stopped at the bottom of the hill for a view of Vezelay, I noticed that someone had left their laundry outside to dry.  Somehow, I think that their clothing got an extra rinse cycle.VAUBAN, CINCINNATI AND WOODEN CLOGS

We were driving along country roads with hedgerows, fields and dark green forest beyond.  Chateau de Bazoches was our destination, a chateau with forty successive owners from twenty different families, but always with two main roots: Chastellux and Vauban.  Meanwhile, as the navigator of our vehicle I was checking the route in my atlas and the GPS map displayed in our car.  Giggling at the screen, I told Jim we were driving along Rue de l’Abbé Pissier.  Jim replied, “Say what??!” Very often the French words has a much different meaning in English, but in this instance it is quite the same since Pissier is just what you would think it is, from what I understand.  Now, that’s enough potty-talk for me.

We reached the small village below the chateau which has an exhibit of special interest for anyone from Ohio in the U.S.  A large model of a 74-cannon ship from 1780 is displayed in one of the rooms of the chateau.  The ship under command of Count de Grasse left Brest for America during the War of Independence.  King Louis 16th and President George Washington created in December, 1783, the hereditary order of Cincinnati.  The Society of Cincinnati still gathers its descendants. I am sorry to say that we never made it up the hill to see the chateau and its sumptuous furnishings since we lingered around the village and explored other narrow roads like the Rue de l’Abbé Pissier.  We saw the burial place of the French military engineer Marquis de Vauban.  He was first buried there but the grave was destroyed during the French Revolution.  In 1808, Napoleon Bonaparte ordered his heart to be reburied in the church of Les Invalides.Now that wasn’t too much history for you, was it?  After seeing where Vauban was buried after he popped his clogs and hoping no one is offended by that description, we zipped along to see one of the last clog-makers and wood sculptors in the region. 

Romain Doré carves everything from a boar’s head to a wooden goblet.  We found the giant yellow “sabotier” sign, but no one was around.  I thought the brilliant yellow clogs would be perfect for the Matra’s owner!


What a nice day with a yellow car, yellow clogs and yellow pants on a friendly fellow strolling downhill! Our tour was bright as sunshine, or a giant sunflower despite the rain clouds.  We were happy to explore new things and relish our re-acquaintance of the old.

In the last blog story I said we would take a trip down memory lane and meet new people in a village where we considered buying a house many years ago.  Now you know about Bryan and Margaret, the gracious couple who invited us to their table.

Next time, we will see another UNESCO site and visit an adorable village where anise candy is made. Thanks for coming around to travel with us.

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5 thoughts on ““Looking Back” – by Debbie Ambrous

    • Bill, it’s always refreshing to see your comment since you know very well the work that goes into the blog story and photos. If you are ever in Vezelay, you must take a look at Cabalus. Thank you ever so much for your encouragement and kind words. My husband Jim sends greetings to you as well. All the best, Debbie

  1. Hi Debbie
    We very much enjoyed this adventure and as usual your photos are amazing! We are invited to Paris for the international convention August 2-4. We are extremely excited for our first trip to France.

  2. Just think if you guys had moved to France, I would have never gotten to know you! Call me selfish, but I’m glad you guys did not move there! After all, if you had, I would not be getting these fascinating stories about France.

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